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Fun - Is My Child Ready for a Family Pet?
Is My Child Ready For A Family Pet?
by: Jennifer Gove
At some point every child asks that all time famous question.
Can I have a pet? While owning a pet fosters
responsibility and compassion, some children are just not
ready to help take care of a pet. It is a huge responsibility
and one that must be given careful thought.
There are many things you should consider as a family.
What kind of pet?
What kind of pet would fit into your life style best. There
are many options from large dogs to little fish. You should
carefully consider the needs of each and what you think
will fit into you life style as well. The happiest pet is
one with happy owners that dont feel stressed by its
care and needs. You should study into types as well as breeds
so you know exactly what to expect breeds.
Can you afford the addition of a pet?
Now that you have decided on a type of pet. You need to
consider the cost of owning a pet. Pets even if you are
given on free are very expensive. If you have a dog or a
cat there will be vet visits, food, licensing, toys and
supplies and if your pet should become sick there are medications
they may need. Owning a pet is very expensive.
Do you have the time?
Animals require attention just like we do as human beings.
The need to be feed, groomed, walked, played with. They
need to know they are loved. With out proper care they will
suffer. Families that are going threw major changes such
as a move or birth of a child or that work long hours may
just not have the time.
My home
Do you live in an apartment? Is a pet ok with your landlord?
Will you have to pay a separate pet deposit? Do you have
the space? Is there room in the back yard for a pet to roam?
Are there laws in your area regarding scooping and licensing?
What are they?
My child
Is he or she ready? Owning a pet is a family matter. Never
surprise your child with a pet they are not expecting. Expectations
about the pets care and exercise should be laid out clearly.
Many children loose interest in a pet after the first few
weeks and leave mom and dad to care for the pet. Pets require
gentle handling and understanding do you think your child
is ready for that? How do they react to animals you see
out in public? Are they rough, or afraid? It may be better
if they learn some animal care before you add a pet to your
home. Visits to the local animal shelter are a wonderful
start and often the staff is willing to teach basic animal
care to children.
Remember
A pet is a huge commitment. Many pets live for at least
15 years with proper care. Will you still want this commitment
then? Puppies, kittens and such are cute, but they grow
and have needs that must be met.
About The Author Jennifer is a full
time mother of nine children.She resides in a small
fishing village on the coast of Maine.She has been
married for 12 years to her best friend whom is
also her loving husband. You can find many more
articles like this one at http://simplymoms.com as well
as parenting chat and message forums.
zjgim@hotmail.com
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