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Parenting - Control Your Children's
Clutter
Control Your Children's
Clutter!!
by: Betsy Fein
Ever feel overwhelmed by all the papers, notices,
artwork, and other items your kids bring home from school?
Dont be a pack rat!! Well show you how to Trap
the R-A-T (RETAIN, ACT, THROW)
1. School flyers: Nearly every day, your child
brings home flyers announcing some school activity, bake
sale, field trip, or other such notices. Unfortunately,
these notices tend to pile up unless acted upon. As soon
as practicable, read the flyers and perform the following
R.A.T. exercise. RETAIN: All school flyers that you need
to keep (class lists with phone numbers, emergency procedures,
etc.) ACT: Make sure you have your calendar while reviewing
the flyers, and mark any important dates. Once you mark
the date, you should be able to throw. THROW:
Anything you suspect you wont need in the future.
Dont be afraid to throw, as you can always go back
to the school and ask about the content of the flyer if
necessary. There should be approximately a 4 to 1 ratio
of throw to retain.
2. Art Work: While it would be great to be
able to keep all of your childrens artwork in perpetuity,
most of us dont have enough room in the house!! I
recommend that you follow the 3 F rule. FRAME:
Some outstanding pieces of artwork deserve framing. Buy
several acrylic frame boxes at The Container Store and hang
the framed artwork around your house, in your basement,
or in your childs room. Your kids will appreciate
the recognition they get when you go the extra mile to frame
their art. FILE: Not all art is frameworthy. But it may
not be trashworthy either! Keep those items which demonstrate
talent, and you may someday decide to frame. Make a file
box for each child, and let them decorate the box. When
they bring something home they want to keep, ask them to
file it in their very own keepsake box. FLUSH: No need to
keep random scribble, or works that dont meet your
standards. There should be a 1 to 3 to 5 ratio of Frame,
File and Flush. And dont forget, much of the filed
art can be used as gifts to relatives. You may also consider
taking digital photos of your childs art, and storing
it on disk. Although its not the same as the original,
this is a good way to reduce the clutter of the overwhelming
amount of art that comes through the door.
3. Art Supplies: To create a masterpiece,
your child needs the proper tools. Everything from markers,
crayons, paints, and brushes need to be organized or they
will quickly overtake your home. Keep everything in a portable
box that they can bring from room to room, and separate
the crayons, markers and other stuff into baggies. Make
it clear that they are responsible for maintaining order
for their art supplies. You may also consider purchasing
a small art desk and a bookshelf so they can
have their own area in the house to do artwork. Put the
supplies in separate lined baskets in the bookshelf for
them to use.
4. Birthday invitations: To keep track of
all the birthday parties, its best to follow the GO
or NO rule. Once you get invited try to make a decision
quickly. Mark it in your calendar and make a birthday invitation
file so you can keep the ones you need (i.e. if theres
directions youll need the day of the party). If its
a NO, respond within a day or two and flush
the invitation.
These are just a few of the ideas to help
kill the clutter. To go the extra mile, a professional organizer
can help you meet all of the above challenges, and more.
About The Author
Betsy Fein is the President of Clutterbusters!!, a professional
organizing firm based in Rockville, Maryland. For a free
evaluation of your home or office, and to review clutterbusting
products, go to www.theclutterbusters.com.
Copyright 2003
feintimes@aol.com
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