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Posted on Sunday, February 18th, 2007 at 12:18 pm. About Success Principles, The Secret.

Staying postive when your business hits bumps in the road

Today in church they were talking about overcoming hardships. And it came just the right moment. My husband lost his job. And I am looking in the mirror wondering what I am made of. I need to double my income quickly. While it would be easy to nurse my worries, I am trying instead to focus on the positive.

I believe that entrepreneurship is a process of evolution to becoming self actualized (being your best self). For me, that journey started with discovering my purpose and creating business around putting that purpose into practice.

Success doesn’t always come easy. Most of the truly successful people I know have a Cinderella story of some sort. The other day I interviewed Matt Bacak and he said how he was bankrupt and was living in a single room apartment up to his eyeballs in debt. And then he decided to change things. The story ends that Matt now has a 3 million dollar internet business.

In my experience, I’ve certainly had my share of hard times. And here are some life lessons I have picked up along the way.
Hope you find it helpful.

1) Hardship happens. Your work at home business won’t always go smooth as gravy. It’s part of the journey to success. Accept it and don’t dwell in it.

2) Look upwards when times are down. You get more of what you focus on in life. If you keep focusing on what’s wrong, you’ll attract more of that in your life. Keep your chin up. Keep that vision of what DOES matter to you in your big bright future as motivation to keep you going. You need a really big reason “why” to help you get thru the tough times.

Remember the story of the Holocost survivor? He was in the worst place imaginable. But because he chose to look for the good, he was able mentally to survive his unbearable existance. Worry about nothing. Pray about everything. Choose to focus on the good. Rise above your circumstances.

Also, in the movie The Secret, they talk about how whatever you think about most is what you attract into your life. So if you think about your problems all day long, you are attracting more problems.

3) Look for ways to make lemons out of lemonade. Make the best of your situation. What can you learn from your mistake? How can you grow personally from the situation? How can you use what you learned to make things even better? And the ultimate gift, how can you turn your hardship into a mission or service to help others overcome that same challenge?

When have you had tough times in business? What have you learned from it? What good came in the end? Share your stories.

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  1. Kristie T’s Home Business Blog » Quotes from The Movie The Secret - Posted on February 25th, 2007 at 8:38 am.
  1. 1 Shannon
    Posted on February 18th, 2007 at 1:52 pm. About 'Staying postive when your business hits bumps in the road'.

    Hi Kristie,

    I understand how hard it can be living off one income. I’m the sole income provider for my family (wife, boy 2½ years old, and girl 6 months old).

    I struggle every day with no money for things needed, but that’s ok. I know my situation is only temporary. I have the confidence that I will succeed and I won’t give up. I just finished watching “The Secret” and I highly recommend checking it out.

    You can visit The Secret’s website at http://www.thesecret.tv. I also wrote about it today on my blog at http://www.s-cole.com/this-really-is-the-secret-to-success/

    Stay positive and best of success. :)

    Have a great day,
    S. Cole
    http://www.s-cole.com

  2. 2 Ishkabibble
    Posted on February 18th, 2007 at 10:58 pm. About 'Staying postive when your business hits bumps in the road'.

    I reread Mark Twain’s story “The $30,000 Bequest,” about a couple who stand to inherit money from a cranky distant relative, so long as they never mention this bequest to anyone while the relative survives. The wife invests (in her mind), becoming wealthier and more prominent, until she has married off their daughters (in her mind) to English nobility. Meanwhile, the husband buys (in his mind) ever more extravagant clothing, furniture, real estate and trappings. Ultimately they learn the rich uncle has died, leaving them … nothing. The gloom and bitterness that assaults them after years of building elaborate castles in the air (excuse the cliche, but it’s appropriate) is palpable. This story makes me focus on what I need to do in the present, and not yesterday or next year.

    Nice book report, huh? ;)

  3. 3 Dawud Miracle
    Posted on February 21st, 2007 at 11:52 am. About 'Staying postive when your business hits bumps in the road'.

    In the past, I used slow times in my business to work on my business. Once I got out of the ‘I have to do something to drum up clients’ mode, I realized that down times were a blessing to help me further develop my services, products and workflow. It gave me time to rewrite my contract and proposal templates or create white pages I could give to clients explaining things I said over and over.

    Of course, if your business is struggling and you can’t buy food, that’s s different story. In that case, I suggest evaluate your position as objectively as you can. Don’t panic. Then choose one idea for getting clients and follow through with it as much as you can. And when you get a contact, return emails or phone calls immediately - that’s always impressive.

  4. 4 Jason Lamure
    Posted on March 14th, 2007 at 5:12 am. About 'Staying postive when your business hits bumps in the road'.

    Hi Kristie,

    Thanks for the quotes and articles you posted on the “Secret”.

    I have thru experience, started to arrive at similar conclusions about life/success/happiness and this all re-affirms I am on the right track with my business and life.

    Have great day and thanks for the great business advice.

    Jason Lamure
    http://www.my-easy-promoter.com

  5. 5 Vin Andella
    Posted on June 25th, 2008 at 12:28 pm. About 'Staying postive when your business hits bumps in the road'.

    The Secret movie was an awesome example of how the law of attraction can summon the universal powers to manifest people situations and material things into your life.

    All of the presenters had compelling stories that described in detail how their lives changed once they applied the secret principals.

    I watched the movie several times only to discover the secret was never revealed nor did they explain how to actually make the law of attraction work in your favor.

    I searched for a year and finally discovered exactly how the secret law of attraction works.

    Anybody can put the principals to work for them and change their life dramatically in a short period of time.

    It’s true, they are laws and they work all the time but its your choice to make them work for you and not against you.

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